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Temas alrevesados

Hoy muy temprano por la mañana comence a pensar en las cosas que nos hacen crecer , que nos hacen cambiar,  que nos hacen ver el mundo ( digase nuestro entorno) de una manrea diferente.
De una manera particularmente *Magica* o coincidencialmente,  las cosa que he escucharo y/o visto hasta este momento del dia me han guiado en una misma idea.
En este momento creo que las cosas que mas nos impulsan a hacer un cambio son las cosas que nos resultan dificiles,  creo que hasta existe un provebio chino que nos indica este tipo de cosas, el cual porsupuesto no recuerdo bien pero tiene algo que ver con un lirio y un pantano ( memoria de Neurodivergente) 
Ahora esto me lleva a pensar en el crecimiento que tienelas personas con membresia VIP a esta vida , ya sabes los que son y estan dentro de estandar social fisico / economico tienen crecmineto de una forma similar, igual y si pero la intensidad de sus problemas puede que sea otra pero apra ellos se sienta de la misma forma , obvio con esto no busco desvalidar el dolor de los VIP ni hacer los problemas de los wallflowers as me mas graves de lo que son, solo trato de entender esta forma de crecer. 

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From the OhOh Moment to the OhOh Fuck Moment


A long time ago, very long like 30 years or so ago,  I started writing about the OhOh moment, cause that was when I began to have those.
For all of you (as if I have 3 readers) that does not know what an OhOh moment is, here it goes.
OhOh moment is a sudden moment of realization, in my case, it is the realization that I had a crush or like someone or assimilated a big thing in my life.

Lately, I have been going through my old writings and journals, and since soon I'll be 40yo, I'm trying to have a broader view of who I am and what I used to believe and get to know my past self a little bit better.
So given that I have been retelling myself some "Tales from the Shame Corner My Mind" to try to see my past self, I'm pretty impressed with how I handle certain stuff like OhOh moments.

I tend to be a bit awkward but I guess that very large part of situations where I put myself in, well in this exercise I have chosen to call my BIG OhOh moments OhOh Fuck moments, cause they were so spontaneously shocking.

And now for the tale of one of those, I was like 28 years ago more or less,  I was invited to an event, and I was sitting across someone I knew very well, in this event I was wearing a dress, this is important cause I'm not the dress kind of gal, so I was very uncomfortable but as soon as I said hello to this person that sense of being uncomfortable went away and I had a bit kind of warmth I the higher part of the stomach, after that moment past , we dance together,  have never dance with someone before.
This OhOh moment hold a very special place, since it was al platonical and mu.





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El olor a Falso

 Como algunos de los pocos lectores que tengo ya saben yo tengo sinestesia, lo cual hace mas especial mi experiencia en este planeta como persona a nivel indivual y esto afecta cada espacio de mi vida de manera sensorial de una manera fuerte.

Bueno el dia de hoy que es cumpleaños de uno de mis mejore amigos , hablabamos por telefono de la vida y la importancia de cuestionarse las acciones que se consideran como de NORMIES osea esta gama de cosas socialmente aceptadas y reforzadas por los medios y todo el entono y que tanto vacio deja el hecho de no cuestionarse el MUST BE  en lugar de enfocarse en el por que deberia de no ser asi para todos,  por que al final no esta la olla de oro al final del arcoiris ( digase de las cosas que nos dicen que debemos de ser) al final ahi no esta la felicidad, como nois damos cuenta de estas cosas de una manera miuy fuerte a un punto muy alto de nuestra vida a veces muy tarde. 

Le contaba yo desde mi punto de vista de la sinestesia como lo relaciono de mi manera,  una vez entre a tras bambalinas en un teatro y fui invadida por un olor a humedad, pintura polvo , madera vierja ,  y moho,  este olor es el olor del teatro que apesar de que sabemos que es algo falso ,  algo actuado , algo que esta hecho para entretener tiene este olor y capa de falsedad que lo acopaña si te das cuenta de su sensacion,  de haber sido engañado por esas mascaras que fueron presentadas para tu entretenimiento,  de la misma forma ese olor que se quedo guardado en la memoria me acompañay me regresa cada vez que siento que laa gente monta algo para los demas algo que no es parte de real de su escencia y que muchas veces hasta va encontra de sus creencias previamente manifestadas en conversaciones conmigo , y con esto no he de decir que frente ami la gente ande sin mascaras pero si que la forma en la que conosco a las personas  es la forma que desde mi punto de vista es " real "  y cuando se ave con otras se ve como ocualtan o tapan cosas de su escencia con el mismo proposito que el teatro ,  para entretener al otro. 


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What triggers Change ?

Energy and motivation can come from either pressure, desire FOR  something, or desire to GET AWAY  FROM something.



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Preludio Musical de la semana


Confesión de gusto de esos llamados culposos ,  

Me gustan la letras de algunas de las canciones de Residente ( AKA Calle 13) , una de ella es esta:


Todas mis mañanas amanecen arropadas con tu atardecer
Tú te duermes en mi hoy, yo despierto en tu ayer
Cuando tengo que bajar, te dan ganas de subir
Yo quiero llegar cuando tú te quieres ir
Todos los descubrimientos tienen muchas ganas de encontrarte
Hasta las estrellas usan telescopios pa' buscarte
Dentro de los accidentes, imprevistos y las posibilidades
Eventualidades, choques estelares
La casualidad de poder vernos se escapa
Somos diferentes cielos en un mismo mapa
Échale sal al café, no está mal ir a probar
Tenemos la misma sed con distinto paladar
Y tú aquí y yo allá
Y yo aquí y tú allá
Et je (et je) t'entends
Quand tu (quand tu) t'en vas
Et si (et si) tu restes
Tu me (tu me) vois pas
Nuestra coordenada no es lo único que va girando
Tout ce qui naît, meurt tôt ou tard
Si caminamos al revés
Peut-être nous nous rencontrerons
Nos estaremos encontrando
Le monde conspire et danse
Il te cherche, tu penses
Adore tes grands yeux
Avec lesquels tu dis adieu
Et tu pleures quand tu dors
Plein de remords
Tu cherches toujours
Autant d'amour
No hay señal de mis satélites ni de tus astros
Tú pierdes mi rumbo, cuando yo pierdo tu rastro
Y aunque perder tus pasos sea parte de mi rutina
El suelo sonríe cada vez que tú caminas
Y tú aquí y yo allá
Y yo aquí y tú allá
Et je (et je) t'entends
Quand tu (quand tu) t'en vas
Et si (et si) tu restes
Tu me (tu me) vois pas
Y tú aquí y yo allá
Y yo aquí y tú allá
Et je (et je) t'entends
Quand tu (quand tu) t'en vas
Et si (et si) tu restes
Tu me (tu me) vois pas
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Cantando, Quesitos, y otros Habitos

 

Mientras los años pasan nos formamos el habito de los resultados que tenemos en la vida,  como el habito de no creer en una misma en diferentes aspectos de la vida,  pero existen momentos catárticos que te hacen ver hacia atrás donde te das cuenta que la única cosa que te estaba poniendo el freno para no avanzar eran esos hábitos aprendidos de creer o mas bien no creer en ti.

Un claro ejemplo de este  se me vino a la mente hace unos días que salí con mi amiga desde 1994 y fuimos a un karaoke a cantar cosa que a pesar de llevarnos mucho y conviví durante lo que se le puede llamar una vidas nunca habíamos hecho una frente a la otra,   y aun así lo hicimos y los disfrutamos mucho, pero el punto de esto es que la memoria de ella impulsándome a cantar frente al chico que me gustaba en la preparatoria, ella creyendo en mi vino a la mente como balde de agua fría,  por que ella creyó mas en mi en ese momento y solo existe el what if . . . , y no por que eso fuera a cambiar el destino de esa relación de adolescente con sujeto en cuestión , si no la relación conmigo misma y el habito hubiese sido modificado  o mínimo diferido en ese momento para generar otro Branch en mi rumbo de vidia y quizá solo quizá me hubiese atrevido a mas cosas.






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Harry potter y su sentido de pertenecía

 El sentido de pertenencia es una necesidad humana fundamental. Buscamos comunidades y relaciones en las que nos sintamos aceptados y valorados. Esta búsqueda de pertenencia se refleja en la trama de Harry Potter, donde el protagonista, Harry, un joven mago huérfano, lucha por encontrar un hogar y una familia después de años de sentirse desplazado en el mundo de los muggles. Al ingresar a la Escuela de Magia y Hechicería de Hogwarts, Harry experimenta una transformación emocional. Encuentra amistades genuinas en Ron y Hermione, y también descubre un lugar donde su historia y su legado tienen significado. A través de sus vínculos con otros estudiantes y profesores, Harry empieza a desarrollar un sentido de pertenencia en el mundo mágico.

No obstante, el proceso de pertenencia no siempre es fácil. Muchos personajes, como Neville Longbottom y Luna Lovegood, luchan con la autoaceptación y la confianza en sí mismos. Neville, en particular, pasa gran parte de la historia sintiéndose inadecuado debido a las expectativas de su familia y su propia percepción de sí mismo. Su transformación de un estudiante inseguro a un valiente miembro del Ejército de Dumbledore ejemplifica el poder de la autoaceptación. A medida que Neville aprende a abrazar sus fortalezas y superar sus inseguridades, se convierte en una parte integral de la comunidad de Hogwarts.

La autoaceptación juega un papel fundamental en el proceso de integración en cualquier comunidad. En el mundo real, a menudo nos encontramos en situaciones donde no nos sentimos completamente en sintonía con un grupo o una cultura específica. En estos casos, la autoaceptación es esencial para convertirse en parte de algo más grande. Aprender a abrazar nuestras peculiaridades y fortalezas individuales nos permite contribuir de manera única a cualquier comunidad a la que deseemos pertenecer.

Las películas de Harry Potter nos enseñan que la autoaceptación es un viaje continuo y que la pertenencia no se trata simplemente de adaptarse a las normas existentes, sino de encontrar un lugar donde nuestras diferencias sean valoradas. A través de personajes como Dobby, un elfo doméstico, y Hagrid, un semigigante, la saga subraya la importancia de la inclusión y la empatía hacia aquellos que pueden sentirse marginados.

En resumen, las películas de Harry Potter son un ejemplo magistral de cómo el sentido de pertenencia y la autoaceptación son interconexiones fundamentales en la experiencia humana. A través de la narrativa de personajes mágicos, pero profundamente humanos, aprendemos que pertenecer a una comunidad no requiere que ocultemos nuestras diferencias, sino que las celebremos. Aceptar quiénes somos y encontrar el valor en nuestras singularidades nos permite unirnos a comunidades más grandes y, finalmente, forjar nuestro propio camino en el mundo.


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Revisitando lugares no fisicos

Hace unas semanas emprendí un viaje a lugares que hace mucho tiempo no había visitado, para gente como yo y me refiero a neurodivergentes no es sencillo sentirse cómoda en ambientes nuevos , toma tiempo, y muchas situaciones incomodas para poder sentirse de verdad cómoda donde una esta y muchas veces llega a nosotras unas sensación de creerse externo o muy fuera de lugar, sin embargo en este viaje aprendí o mas bien reaprendí que tengo un lugar en la vida de estas personas tan especiales, y que ese lugar no es cambiado sin importar que mis creencias sean diferentes o hay crecido para otro rumbo , encuentro reconfortante el hecho de tener un lugar así. 

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Discovering the Hidden Patterns: Mandalas and Data Analysis

 In today's data-driven world, the art of data analysis has become an integral part of decision-making processes across various industries. But what if I told you that there is a connection between the ancient practice of creating mandalas and the modern techniques of data analysis? At first glance, these two seemingly unrelated fields may appear worlds apart, but upon closer examination, one can uncover striking similarities that highlight the power of patterns, structure, and visualization. In this blog post, we will explore the intriguing relationship between mandalas and data analysis, demonstrating how both practices tap into the human capacity for pattern recognition and insight generation.


Mandalas as Visual Representations:
Mandalas, originating from ancient Indian and Tibetan traditions, are circular designs characterized by intricate patterns and symmetry. They serve as visual representations of the universe, often created as a means of meditation and spiritual expression. Mandalas are carefully crafted with precision and attention to detail, emphasizing the interconnectedness of elements and the balance of forces.

Data Analysis as Pattern Recognition:
Data analysis, on the other hand, involves the extraction of meaningful information from vast amounts of data. It encompasses various techniques such as statistical analysis, machine learning, and data visualization. At its core, data analysis seeks to identify patterns, trends, and relationships within datasets, allowing us to derive insights and make informed decisions.

Pattern Recognition and Insight Generation:
Both mandalas and data analysis rely on the human ability to recognize patterns and derive meaning from them. In mandalas, the repetition of intricate patterns within a circular framework encourages a meditative state that allows individuals to connect with deeper insights and cosmic harmony. Similarly, in data analysis, the identification of patterns within datasets leads to valuable insights and the unveiling of hidden relationships.

Structure and Symmetry:
Mandalas often feature symmetrical designs that create a sense of balance and harmony. This symmetrical structure is reflected in data analysis through the use of mathematical models and algorithms. These models provide a framework for organizing and interpreting data, enabling analysts to uncover underlying structures and relationships that might otherwise go unnoticed.

Visualization and Interpretation:
Another striking similarity between mandalas and data analysis lies in the power of visualization. Mandalas are visually captivating, drawing viewers into a mesmerizing world of intricate details and vibrant colors. Similarly, data analysis employs visualizations such as charts, graphs, and interactive dashboards to make complex datasets more accessible and understandable. By presenting data in a visual format, patterns and insights become more apparent, facilitating effective interpretation and decision-making.

Unleashing Creativity and Intuition:
Both mandalas and data analysis require a delicate balance between analytical thinking and creative intuition. While data analysis relies heavily on logical reasoning and statistical methodologies, successful analysts often bring a creative mindset to the table, enabling them to approach problems from unique angles and uncover unexpected insights. Similarly, mandala creation is a deeply intuitive process that allows individuals to express their creativity while tapping into their inner wisdom.

Conclusion:
Mandalas and data analysis may seemingly exist in different realms, one rooted in ancient spiritual practices and the other in the realm of modern technology. However, the parallels between the two highlight the universal human fascination with patterns, structure, and insight generation. The power of recognizing patterns and deriving meaning is a fundamental aspect of both mandalas and data analysis, allowing us to unravel the mysteries of the universe and make informed decisions in our data-driven world. So, whether you find solace in creating mandalas or diving into the depths of data analysis, both paths lead to a greater understanding of the interconnectedness and inherent beauty of the world around us.

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NO LONGER A NICHE MARKET



I think that no longer being a key or primary market niche is closely related to the complaints of Gen X, Xennials and Millennials who are perceived as "Ningun Chile nos embona" 

Because I believe it, here goes the mass advertising boom was in the 80s with the advent of television and the era of marketing persuasion coincidentally is the time when Gen X were already aware of the consumption of it marketing and that the Xennials were conditioned (Educated) by the media for future consumption and the Millennials lined up to be able to start from 0 to have as nannies (nannies) the then innocent television full of ads in each court, therefore these 3 generations we are used to not say conditioned to believe that advertising and the media should reflect our tastes and our buying style and not that of new generations like the Centenials with their caricatures and their music (Reggaeton to give an example).

We grew up so surrounded by confirmatory biases that when presented with a new way of making things look, hear, dance, or see in new ways, many of us say that our times were better.

This fact not only happens in these 3 generations, this has always happened, the difference is that now we can express it with loudspeakers (on networks, Twitter, FB, TIKTOK, etc.) and it is more widely seen around the world because it has more reach.

During my studies in marketing just before the time of the change from classic marketing to marketing through Social Networks, that is, before 2007, in a class we saw a topic about market niches, a very easy way to explain it from the teacher on duty was the Next:

It has not happened to you that you see an ad and you are not clear about the entire message of the ad or you do not like it for one reason or another, the good thing is that this ad was not for you, you were not the NICHE market for this ad.

This phrase made it clear to me that it was a niche and I keep it very much in mind when I receive an ad, a song or even an image within the media. I tell myself I'm not the niche for this. 

But since I also belong to the Xennial generation, I also hope that everything is about my lifestyle or what I need or that it fills my cognitive biases but it is not like that now every day I come across more because if I analyze it I know that I will stop marketing I am already from a generation that is already conditioned to consumption and they don't have as much need to present me with things for me to buy, and for this reason the messages are no longer for me. 

I know that I understand this because of the marketing background and things that I have learned from the capital, but I also know that there are people who do not understand it and believe that what they are trying to do is change them without knowing that the message is not even for their niche. for another niche that come with other ideas and other ways of expressing themselves different from mine. 

With this I do not want to justify everything that is conditioned by means to feed the capital machine, if I do not understand why it is done but the reactions that the non-Niche generations of these markets have also feed it in an unsuspected way since with these They also generate consumer content in push to also encourage consumption.

One thing that makes me laugh about this is that in the end, the people of these Generations, myself included, believe that everything should be for us and when it is not, we complain all the way because it does not fit what we expected and I think that it's because simply as "the acient one" says to Dr Strage  " It 's  Not  About  You ". ( It is not about you)

I think that it is really one of the simplest and clearest lessons that we must learn in this and that we can extrapolate to many other topics. 

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Ya no ser un nicho de mercado


Creo que el ya no ser un nicho clave o primordial de mercado  está muy relacionado con las quejas de los Gen X, Xennials y Milenials que es percibido como "Ningún Chile nos embona" 

Porque lo creo,  aquí va   el boom de la publicidad masiva fue en los años 80s con la llegada de la televisión y la era de la persuasión del marketing coincidente mente es la época en que los Gen X ya era n consientes del consumo de la misma mercadotecnia y que a los Xennials nos condicionaban ( Educaban ) los medios para el futuro consumo y los Milenials se alineaba para poder comenzar desde 0 a tener como nanas ( niñeras)  ala entonces inocente televisión llena de anuncios en cada corte,  por lo tanto estas 3 generaciones estamos acostumbrados por no decir condicionados a creer que la publicidad  y los medios deben de reflejar nuestros gustos y nuestro estilo de compra y no el de nuevas generaciones como los Centenials con sus caricaturas su música ( Reggaetón por poner un ejemplo ).

Crecimos tan rodeados con sesgos confirmativos que cuando se nos presenta una nueva forma de hacer ver ,oír ,bailar o ver las cosas de formas nuevas muchos de nosotros decimos que en nuestros tiempos eran mejores.

Este hecho no solo pasa en estas 3 generaciones ,  esto siempre ha pasado la diferencia es que ahora podemos expresarla con altavoces ( En redes , Twitter ,  FB, TIKTOK etc.) y es más vista por todo el mundo porque tiene más alcance.

Durante mis estudios en mercadotecnia justo antes de la época de cambio de mercadotecnia clásica a la mercadotecnia por Redes sociales ósea antes de 2007, en una clase vimos un tema sobre nichos de mercado, una manera muy fácil de explícalo de la maestra en turno fue la siguiente:

No les ha pasado que ven un anuncio y no tienen claro todo el mensaje del anuncio o no les gusta por una razón u otra,  a bueno es que ese anuncio no era para ustedes no eran el NICHO de mercado de este anuncio.

Esta frase me quedo claro que era un nicho y la tengo muy en mente cuando dentro de medios recibo un anuncio , una canción o hasta una imagen. me digo a mí misma no soy el nicho de esto. 

Pero como también pertenezco a la generación Xennial también espero que todo se trate de mi estilo de vida o de lo que yo necesito o que llene mis sesgos cognitivos pero no es así ahora cada día me topo con más porque  si lo analizo sé que yo para la mercadotecnia ya soy de una generación que ya está condicionada al consumo y no tienen tanta necesidad de presentarme cosas para que yo compre,  y por eso los mensajes ya no son para mí. 

Se que yo entiendo esto por le background de mercadotecnia y cosas que aprendido del capital pero también sé que hay gente que no lo entiende y cree que lo que se intenta es que los cambien a ellos sin saber que el mensaje ni es para su nicho es para otro nicho que vienen con otras ideas y otras maneras de expresarse diferentes a la mía. 

Con esto no quiero justificar todo lo que se condiciona por medios para alimentar a la máquina de capital, si no entiendo por qué se hace pero las reacciones que tenemos las generaciones no Nicho de estos mercados también lo alimentan de una manera insospechada ya que con estas también generan contenido de consumo  en push para también incentivar el consumo.

Una cosas que me da risa de esto es que al final la gente de estas Generaciones yo incluida creemos que todo debe de ser para nosotros y cuando no lo es ,  vamos quejándonos todo el camino por que no se adecua a lo que esperábamos y creo que es porque simplemente como dice " the acient one" a Dr Strage "It's Not About You". ( No se trata de ti)

Creo que en verdad es una de más simples y claras lecciones que debemos aprender en este y que podemos extrapolar a muchos otros temas. 

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Generamos nuestra soledad

Inconscientemente nos mantenemos solos al formar barreras defensivas, después de haber generado trauma de una experiencia que nos pasó.

Estas barreras defensivas nos mantienen con una falsa idea de seguridad ante la idea de sentirnos vulnerables,  el sentirnos vulnerables nos hace sentir que estamos escapando al dolor.

Pero esta idea es contraproducente porque solo en la vulnerabilidad hay crecimiento. 

Con nuestras barreras defensivas nos contamos una idea de fortaleza ante los de más que nos impide estar en contacto con nosotros mismos por el miedo a la misma vulnerabilidad. 

 A esta fortaleza le agregamos características que nos permitan conectar con otros pero no a nivel real solo a una escala cómoda para evitar el dolor de ser vulnerable y después de tiempo estas conexiones se revelan como lugares incomodos de donde para salir tenemos que confrontarnos contra estas conexiones.

Creo que lo más sano es apreciar la vulnerabilidad y tratar de ser honestos con nosotros mismos aunque esto signifique que tengamos que ser rechazados por algunos que no nos acepten como somos.

Al mismo tiempo si descartamos gente por valores no propios , si no los valores que tenemos en los ladrillos  falsos de la fortaleza que nos creamos.







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Es importante la Confrontación



La confrontación es honesta y crea confianza, entonces , es un acto de amor cuando yo confronto , yo me valoro y pongo limites, también creo confianza con la otra persona por que la valoro suficiente como para decirle que es lo que está pasando. 

La confrontación permite la honestidad y la transparencia en nuestras relaciones, cosas de particular importanci
a cuando experimentamos conflictos. Cuando te enfrentas a alguien, estás siendo honesto con tus sentimientos y permitiéndote expresar vulnerabilidad.

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El no saber todas las respuestas

Durante la vida aprendemos mucho todos los días,  lo notemos o no , esto no es una novedad no trato de descubrir el hilo negro porque la verdad de eso no trata este blog.

El aprender cosas nuevas no nos hace mejores ni peores en la vida, nos hace personas , pero lo que hace la diferencia es el ver y asumir conscientemente de hoy se aprendió algo nuevo algo que igual hoy es una herramienta que no usaremos pero en un futuro quizá nos sirva de algo. 

A este efecto mucha gente le llana le MINDFULLNES ,  y le pueden llamar como quieran pero el vivir FUERA DEL AUTOMATICO , en mi caso me hace sentir más yo y menos como en un juego donde mi avatar está ahí y yo solo veo y a veces interactuó .

Cuando era más pequeña me gustaba antes de dormir pensar en que había salido mal todo mi día un tipo de auto evaluación del día ,  y estaba consciente que ningún día es perfecto pero que había algo que no había salido bien ,  y escribirlo en mi diario , y si tenía una diario de los errores del día ya hayan sido acciones o pensamientos durante el día que igual y no representaban lo que verdad creía pero si lo que en ese momento pensé bueno o malo. 

Quizá el no tener días perfectos y el no saber las respuestas correctas nos hace mejores que saber todo y que todo sea perfecto. 

SE CRECE EN EL LODO NO EN EL PASTO 








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Don’t ever be ashamed



 Don’t ever be ashamed of LOVING the STRANGE things

 that make your WEIRD little HEART happy. 


– Elizabeth Gilbert  

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El proceso le da valor al resultado



 El proceso es más importante que el resultado en si por que el proceso es quien te hace crecer independiente mente del resultado de la acción el proceso es una ruta de dos vías, porque puedes ganar una lección o ganar con el resultado esperado e inclusive más . . . 




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The answer is not where you are looking for...

Sometimes we try to look for answers in the place where we think we might find them like in other People or in places that we have been before but the answer has a high probability of being in the future in New people or in places that we have never been before both physical or mental. 
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Retelling our story


 It's been said that HISTORY  is written by the winners, but I was wondering if this is true for our story, our experiences are told by ourselves as winners or as losers?

And if it's told by the winner in that story is it ourselves? or is been told by the person that we were in that moment, with all the preconceptions of ourselves within the environment that we were in the moment with all baggage that we carried around in that precise moment?

Were we ourselves back then or we were just a mirror of our environment, trying to portrait what was wanted from us by our peers, family, and society?

is retelling our story in the current position with the current decolonization and work on ourselves a tool to relieve us from our baggage and pain, created by those preconceptions and expectations of our social environment and media persuasion?


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Tiny Efinerous Moments

As we live and remember you find in those memories, tiny efinerous moments , that make you skip a bit.
They create a warmed inside feeling of timelessnes and alter the gravity in your sourandings somehow.

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Bulling and Harry Potter and the Order of Phoenix Part 1



 Today I was watching Harry Potter and The Order of Phoenix, as you might know, or not I like all about the Wizard world,  but this time I had a different perspective about it I have related many of the Ideas that the Book and the Movie have about Bulling.

 I really don't know how to organize these ideas so I'll try to do it scene by scene, where I find some significance to this topic.

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The starting scene is a give away of the trama of all the movie since the bulling is very obvious and also the way harry handles being bullying by confronting his cousin, and then we find that when you confront you bullied the bully becomes vulnerable.

the way harry points out that is to easy to bully a minor when you have a crown supporting the bulling is amazing given that he is right about it, the bully has a support network of people that follows him, and that gives the bully strength, and then harry defeats his bully that is a reason to make him stronger than his bully cause he can overcome the bullying and grow from it.

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The attached where he defended his cousin is also a certain kind of bully that Harry receives from the authority, in this case, the ministry of magic that bully him during the course of the movie. 

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At the ministry, Harry gest bullied by the authority of the people judging him at court,  he gets help with them by Dumbledore,  that at the time he said his name he stops just before he said  Brian as if he was bullied from it before. 

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after harry gets out of train Harry gets bullied by Mafloy he gets in his nerves and tries to act on it. 

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Then we meet luna that apparently he gets bullied a lot, given that even Hemione  when she introduces her to the Ron Nevile and Harry slips out her nickname instead of her name

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Luna explains that he carries an amulet to keep away the nargles this amulet was given to her by her father to believe that nargles are the ones that hide her stuff, the truth is that she has been bullied because she is different. 

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Harry gets confronted by Seamus because the media in this case the Daily prophet makes believes about him and he feels affected by those media ideas, he gets defended by Ron.

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There's a scene when Harry meets Luna in the woods, She has no Shoes cause " nargles"  hide them from her,  at this point I think She learned to cope with bullies cause,  she is petting the Trestrals,  she tells harry that people avoid the cause they are different, this is directly related to her and the feeling of being bullied. 

she also tells Harry that having the feeling of being alone is a key point of those who bullied you,  cause if you feel lonely is only you that they are against. 

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Then we see a compilation of scenes of Dolores Umbridge bulling other professors, about their looks and or professions to the point where she tries to kick out one of the teachers.







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Your task

“Your task is not to seek for love, 

but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”


― Rumi  

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Rejection

When we face rejection from others towards something that we did or create, we have to remember . . . 
if the fear of being rejected by others prevents you from exploring and charing your true self you are actually rejecting your self.
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When you feel alone waiting . . .

So often in life, you feel like you're alone on an island, whether it´s because you can't bring yourself to make an important decision, or because you're waiting for an answer, or simply because you know a secret you wish you didn't.
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El que no se la JUEGA , no gana .

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Dragging vs Learning

For a while I had been trying to feel the way that I feel rigth now but I couldn`t maybe because of my troubled life, but do I carry around of my baggage? I really think that is not a baggage as long as you learn what you have to learn from it. Because if you think about it, every single experience in our life, is very very important to our personal development specialy if we have to really learn from it. Is not that we find a big resolution to every one of our trouble, is just that we have sustain ourself from what we have been living rather that carried around with it . . .
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Ideas you believe in . . .

> If you have ideas that you believe in you should to test those ideas against somebody that you do not agree with
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Clear Water

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Fog

Me gusta la neblina, por que siento que puedo caminar hacia ella y desaparecer . . . Para siempre.
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One of the things that I don't get

While I go on the high way I was thinking why some people.wait for life to begin . . . And while they wait life just pass. In front of them with out noticing isn't that sad :( ?

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Cosas Gratis ! !

Si quieres lograr algo las cosas no van a ser GRATIS . . . las cosas no te van a caer del cielo . . .
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Gay . . . is NOT bad connotation

I believe that every marriage has to be gay in order to work.
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La paga

Todo en esta vida se paga, nos guste o no. Cuando se te cobra lo Malose paga en efectivo al "chaz chaz" y con intereses, pero cuando se te paga lo NBueno se te da en pagos chiquitos poco a poco a cuenta gotas, que pierden el sabor de la acción. Sera acaso esta un realidad sobre como se paga o acaso sera que esta percepcion es la que la sociedad no ha hecho creer que es . . , creo que la percepcion de estas acciones es afectada por nuetras expectativas y por nuetras percepciones de las acciones que nos afectan. A lo que me refiero es que cuando nos sucede algo negativo tendemos a darle mucha mas importancia que cuando nos pasan cosas positivas por muy pequeñas que sean cualquiera de las dos. Para tener una sensacion de felicidad y satisfaccion de una formas mas positiva debemos aprender a valor ala bueno de nuestras vidas de la misma foram en que valoramos lo malo.
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My realizations of the movie Kate and Leopold

Its never too late to realize that what you think you need its actually a matter of the and i bring this topic again. . . need and desires , because I´m a Marketeer by heart . . .a mere desire. Well in this movie ,at the time Kate is giving her speech she said something that I consider quite important: But... but what if someone came along who knew We here at CRG have always considered ourselves to be in the "Find what people want" business and at Jansen, you guys are in the "Make what people want" business. So, imagine what we can do together. We'll be able to find out exactly what people want and make it... for them. So... yeah, so our customers... will be able to get exactly... Uh... ...what they... ...they want. And, uh... ...it's a great thing to... to get what you want. Uh, it's a really good thing. Unless what you thought you wanted wasn't really what you wanted because what you really... ...wanted you couldn't imagine, or you didn't think it was possible. exactly what you wanted without asking? They just knew. Like they could... hear your heart beating or listen to your thoughts. And what if they were sure of themselves and they didn't have to take a poll and they loved you... and you hesitated? So, what if that what women , us , want . . . someone that gives you what you really need , not want and give it to us , with out hesitation or without asking for it. Would we hesitated because out preconceptions tell us that, this situation can be real ? would we ??? or we should believe
and take a leap of faith . . .
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Afraid . . . . don't be you got something to learn . . .

Today I went to drink a Tea with a friend of mine, we have been friends since 1999 its along time. Even though we do not see each other that often we enjoy spending time talking and sharing points of view. This particular conversation was about the fact that sometimes, most of the time the worst mistakes are committed while you are afraid of a scare, and the thing is that the more scared or afraid you are the most you could learn about it. So maybe the fact that you are making a mistake and have that lack of security makes you learn more. It sounds really weird even sounds like irony but I think that's the way it is as far as I know . . .

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Save the bird

This morning it was raining not too heavy but it was nice. 
The thing is that I was watching a bird trying to help what from far seem like another bird trap in a car, but it wasn't it was his own reflection but he tries really hard for more than an hour. So that got me thinking about our selves lost in a hectic world do we lose the sensation of being our selves and get into the trap of trying to save others but in the end the only person that we try to save is ourselves ?????

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Titleless

I really don't know how to name this article but this might work, So this morning I saw a lost poppy in the corner of the bus stop, and he or she was really afraid of everything so that it was barking at everything. Somehow I just Identify with it because these days I have been so aggressive and afraid I think because sometimes in my life I tend to be afraid I really don't know how to behave. I feel so disoriented, sometimes you lose yourself in a different ground that you forget where you need to be
, and what you need to be doing so you attack other people, and it's not their fault it just a simple human reaction. I love this place I love what I have been doing but sometimes especially in my case most of the time knowing what you want is negative because if you know what you want, you do not want anything less.
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Mexico City

Last Week I went to Mexico City, I walked around downtown I wasn't as scary as it used to be, i think the goverment and the people have been working really hard to improve it the last years. Fist of all they have public rental bikes for all people and they have a special kind of road for them and most of the car drives they DO respect them, like I said most of them there are a few neanderthals that dont get the idea of respecting others. They also are in the middle of a pedestrians education campaign where they pay people who stands in the corner of every busy crosswalk in the downton with a big microphone telling people what to do I know it sounds kind of insulting but I truly think that this is what people need !!!!, most of what those guys said was kind of very obvious to me but some of the people near me never heard of that stuff before they where like amazed of what he was saying !!!! but its not that they are not intelligent the thing is that most of them are being educated by TV soap operas and cheap not quality Television and meaningful radio music with a BIG lack of content but i did not aplaude this al thought i like it, this kind of ideas and education spreading should not be just in the capital it has to be in very corner in every bus station , inside of ever bus and even inside every home in order to change the ideas of every mexican and became what we can be.
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Matar al dinero con IDEAS

Creo que la pobreza verdadera no esta en el salario, si en las mentes de la gente que cree que el dinero es la cura para todos los problemas del mundo, o bien para los problemas propios, creo que como Mexicanos nuestra riqueza tal vez no este dentro de nuestro bolsillo si no en nuestra creatividad para hacer las cosas para mejorarlas y aunque muchos no lo veamos las mentes de nosotros Mexicanos son mas ricas en IDEAS, que las tierras de nuestro pais lo son en RECURSO.Por que apesar de que sea poco loque gane una persona muchos de ellos hacen lo improbable , lo inimaginable para sacar a su familia de 5 o 6 adelante con IDEAS no con DINERO.
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Dream

Simon King once said , " If you follow your dreams they can ta you to dark places" I believe that this is so true, because sometimes in the path of a dream you have to pass this dark areas where you can not see not even glimpse of light at the end of the road but I do think that just a test to see how much you can handle. Because if the best is yet to come you better be prepared don´t you think ?
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Diversity 1

Living in a highly Machista country here particularly called ( macho ), while you grow here you learn how boys don't cry , that behaving like a girl is something to be diminish is even an insult to men. Me as a woman living in a culture like this is kind of hard, because while I was growing up I came by a lots of questions about this topic including a comment that I made to my mom when I was 5 years old since at that age I thought most of the laws where a little bit unfair specially for women I told her that I wanted to become a president in order to change my country's constitution. That's a very impressive way of thinking considering my age at that time but I didn't stop there. Since I was living in Mexico City and I have asma since I was 3 years old, I wasn't able to go a play with other kids my age with out having an asma episode , I end up developing my very own personal idea of how we should play such games as Barbie dolls or the small society that you try to recreate in those games. But who would have know that I was no near the ideas of those girls that I saw from the window. In a very particular day My mom let me out to play the neighborhood girls with my Barbies, so I went there and they have their own perpective of society because their games where about weddings, marriage and shopping. For me I wasn't like that at all , and this is the most representative of the moments that mark me as the weird one and ever since I just prefer to be called weird than be called one of some group, So this is what it happen I asked them what a about a job and their professions ???? They all stopped and look at me as if I where just crazy !!!!! From that moment I was called weird girl by them, but i didn't even matter to me so i just ignore them and apreciatte every time that I went out to see the trees the birds and identify them from what i read and what i saw in the real garden. I guess thats not clear but since I got that incredible gift of being able to be my self and not feeding in a society that wants me to belong to those girls ideas of a so called " life " I was very glad to have asma instead. That story talks so much about how we as girls are educated to educate Machos and create that big gap between being female and male. dont you think so ?
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One of the BEST B*Days that I ever had !! :D

The last year was a very peculiar year, and my birthday was no different it was as special as the last year was. Let me introduce you in to it . . . The day before my B*day , was the final of the hockey series of that year and it was celebrated near the placer where I used to work. The local team lost agains a USA team.I know that this fact does not hurt anyone but what about the crazy fans ??? ok this special year these crazy fans where really out of order , lets face it not every year in Canada people go against the law an behave like that !! but this year as I told you it was special. So the crowd gone crazy after the game http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VzOUKODdZ4 Since i was working at the time, I saw that craziness on TV I was not scare but . . . perplex about it, I never thought that i could be like that in that country but i was, as soon as my shift ended i went to the bus stop to see if the busses where running but they where not !!! so i walked to my flat that is also in downtown but the thing was that , my flat was very near the stadium. So I took no risk and I went behind a chinese crowd and i got save home. The next day the day of my B*day,I dressed in purple because I was my purple B day, and told everyone that , that was the theme for my B*day that year, Actually a few days before my B*day My boy they where purple and beautiful. So I took my regular way to school, and I realize that the society it actually is different before the riots people who had no interest in cleaning the streets with out any orders or force them to do it , they where doing it just because they know that the city belong to those who live in it all of us at that time, While I was walking I was listing to the songs that I used to love in that time of my live. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_PkzsMak6P8&ob=av3e http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ehoJ_QKKqY http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YXRw-ycyo-I http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=azBqRLttKGU I got to School like every other day in time.We have planed to go to eat breakfast to a DE DUTCH http://www.dedutch.com/ https://maps.google.com/maps?q=de+dutch&hl=en&ll=49.257286,-123.127236&spn=0.000353,0.000807&sll=49.257017,-123.127372&sspn=0.000703,0.001613&t=h&radius=0.04&hq=de+dutch&z=21&layer=c&cbll=49.257286,-123.127236&panoid=P76qLBLcBxVbnN85f46xJA&cbp=13,85.28,,0,16.2 So my group and my teacher went to have breakfast there, in a rental car drove by a crazy Iranian Driver (just kidding ) we took most of the class to the restaurant and them we went to pick up Carooool (spoke in my very poor portuguese LOL ) and I had a very nice breakfast :D happy moments with my lovely freaks :D So we went back to school, and took our so called regular class, that evening I had a very nice conversation, those kinds of conversations that you have when everything makes sense and new ideas of life change the way you think, and I went home, and call Carol and We drank some beers at my flat , watch some videos and talk to my roomie and watch even more videos they where very funny videos and thats when we became fans of Russel Peters http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-qtrAMK7_Qk http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PoU3lWHCKow&feature=related that was a very fun and special day for me.
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Waking up

So guys, the last few weeks, you might not know about politics or Mexican Politics, that is a little bit weird and dark if I could say that as a Mexican. As I told you last year, this year was going to be not an easy year because everything that has been happening for the last decade since the PAN ( a party that started to govern since 2000 with Vicente Fox)started to govern my country. Since the PAN took away the power from the party that was ruling my country for the last 71 years ( PRI ) my country has been a constant fight for power in the political society. This so-called war has been affecting no other but the poor people and the medium class society, as it sounds it has been changing the way young people think. The access to information especially in the medium class has been improving for a while and this access has developed certain criteria among those who are interested and also those who just want to make fun of our politics, in this case, our candidates. So this year the race towards the presidential seat it has been quite fun if you see it from the point of view of the social digital media and the way we make fun of the stuff that the regular media says and the way our candidates talk and try at least to express themselves. This social media interaction is not just fun and creates a ridiculous image of them or the party that they represent, this funny interaction has created a great awareness. I don´t know if you remember that My teacher in Canada told us that every time he tried to talk about politics with Mexicans they refuse or they avoid the subject. One of the reasons is that in Mexico for a long time the political topic was only about the bad things the government made them or how in Mexico the information about this kind of underwater stuff was very dark and the media contribute to polarizing all the dirty stuff about the politicians. But now FINALLY honestly I thought we will do it before, but finally, the young society, the future of Mexico is waking up, is acting for their right for what they want, and I cannot blame those who tried before. There is a historical fact that you might not know, in October 1968, a manifestation of university students of the Autonomous University of Mexico know as UNAM, end up in tragically, cause with militaries and police officers they tried to quiet the voices of those students and they kill more than 100 students. The worse part was that the news did not cover this news not the local or the national o the international news because a few days later the Olympic games were celebrated here in Mexico. So I guess that's why they tried to stay quiet for a while but now that we are all connected somehow, I guess it will be harder to try to hide from international a local eyes if the decision to do the same thing. Now that the powerful chains of media in Mexico Televisa and TV Azteca had been supporting no other than the candidate of PRI ( the party that rule over 71 years) the students of more than one of the most prestigious universities in Mexico had spotted more than one FAIL in their candidate, and moreover, the average of the people has spotted that too. So The last weeks there has been a great number of manifestations against the so-called CANDIDATE OF TELEVISA because we all think it is benign impose by the media. These movements are APARTIDISTAS ( without a party supporting them ) and they have gathered more that one candidate alone. So I proud of my people who are waking up and I am really happy to be alive when this movement this citizen all of us are fighting to change MEXICO

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INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY

When I think about the International Women's day, is no an about congratulating my self for who I am, in fact, is more about who we are as a society and how we guard the achievements of those women that fight for or rights, and how lately some of us as a woman we have been denigrating our selves in this society without notice.

Our gender has been fighting for equal rights for a long time. In modern western society, we have the same rights in paper in-laws but what about what we do with them how far does it take us to have the same rights and obligations.
How much the quality of our lives has been changing with these laws and rights?

From the way I see it our society has changed in the way that now women are economically independent, we can get as far as we want to get in a company everywhere, we can do everything as well and sometimes even better than men.

But most of us are slaves, yeah. . . SLAVES the media has been manipulating our minds by creating a false image of HOW SHOULD WE LOOK, WHAT SHOULD WE BUY, and most importantly HOW WE SHOULD INTERACT in a society. Sometimes we let this pervasive idea took over our minds, even though we are 100% aware of them, there's no excuse but we as humans need certain approval of society to have that sometimes incoherent sense of belonging.

And today this day that has been celebrated since 1914,I propose that instead of saying a mere CONGRATULATIONS we dedicate ourselves to make each day count, make a change every day to make our gender to be proud.

Instead of looking for an answer in a magazine to find that we are never going to get that body, analyze what is healthy and what is obsession and slavery from that mindless mirror.

Instead of buying a trendy outfit buy something that you like or even better get a local tailor to make it for you just the way you like it without pleasing some other desires that are not yours.

Instead of getting along with people that you don't even like the way they think about you gender or about the way the would like to interact in this society, get along with people how has the same type of ideas as yours in that way you will grow those ideas that you have and make a change for god.

Instead of dancing in a way that you denigrate yourselves causing that men look you only as a sexual object, dance the way you like it even if it seems ridiculous.

Cause people who like you for you won't care if you are weird, ridiculous, or odd, and people who care about that are not important at all.

AND THE MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL BE PROUD TO BE A GIRL A WOMAN BE GLAD TO BE YOU ;)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=Hv5Z2Xv8iJU#!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hv5Z2Xv8iJU&feature=player_embedded




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